80 marriage, sorrow and joy who dominated

 80 marriage, sorrow and joy who dominated?
Wei Qiang Yi
Well, see you married, that sense of urgency at all. Price has gone up, and today's dishes are more expensive than yesterday. You do not hard to wait Hexibeifeng it. earnestness of an old man said his son.
Perhaps we can taste, the marriage after 80, will be a tough challenge. on the material level and wage level and discordant cases, want to make their carefree life is indeed a problem. However, we can not change the status quo, after all, reality is reality.
the eyes of their predecessors, 80 is the honey pot generation,bailey UGG boots, and claimed that the construction of the motherland will be difficult to take after 80. But as time goes by, they slowly old, 80 are gradually mature. in entering the society,Bailey UGG boots, and indeed after the show 80 a lot of shortcomings, but also to their deep feelings of the cruel reality.
890 recently received a TV audience of praise, . Since graduating from college to find work, from family to love, from love to marriage and, indeed, life after 80 will reflect a lot. In an era of individuality, love after 80 seems to be more crazy, love to show themselves. Although encountered numerous setbacks, but still smiling in the end strong.
Now, in the eyes of generations ago, perhaps 80 of their marriage became the focus of attention. from climbing house prices, to price escalation, however, the pressure of competition is also enhanced .80 quietly face after question will be how to survive, how to love all kinds of pressure to obtain the qualification.
a friend said to me,  basement, instant noodles every day, so eat him for three years, then rent a big house, eat fast food every day. boil last three years, chances are you can eat stir-fry into the restaurant, the Hunde Hao, then chances are also Sell tram ride donkey. Now imagine that everything is love and can not imagine the house.  they face employment pressure,cheap UGG boots, buy a car facing the pressure of facing the burden of life. Maybe 80 will become a true generation of house slaves.
 Not to mention. not me snobbish, not my reality. you can not ask me to marry a man, and then eat the life with her hard, right. I do not want to own a lifetime of the oppressed.  things, emphasized that his views. Obviously, this is not their fault, who does not want to have a relaxed environment then?
in a helpless age, men can not suddenly make his promotion to the upper class, while a woman is unable to accept the dirty men in society. There is no doubt that this gap is insurmountable short period of time. obtained a result would be that successful career women prefer the old man, who accompanied the young men do not want to accept the the test of life.
people to live in itself very tired, in order to close the material may have to pay the cost of his life. They live a life of life, do life, can achieve the aim is to make their own alive. Maybe you can live a little easier, perhaps you will be leading a difficult life. But whether it is loose or hard, the Chinese people live just to live and live forever.
This is sad, but also realistic. So in reality people, if you choose a better way to satisfy their desire to live it?
lucky has passed, then the civilians and the era of creeping self. We want to make the Change of Mind would be  The biggest problem is undoubtedly the post is career and marriage, based on a friend's non-accuracy of the budget, a man marry a wife in Beijing, will spend 100 million yuan. and this number is to be completed before the age of 30, then for men, this pressure will be self- evident.
Given the pressure to bear so much, why not change their ideas. Why buy a house, why buy a car, why should his life was unable to bear weight on?
Perhaps women do not understand, but from another point of view. If men loans to buy a car, buy a house. then after marriage, men certainly destitute. the conclusion would be that the joint efforts of husband and wife do slaves, car slave. Since this torture yourself, held on the lawn not as weddings,UGG boots, unencumbered.
80 after the marriage, in addition to facing the test material, there are a worth mentioning is the  is mostly unassuming, compared with a personality. then two unique individuals and together, will inevitably cause each other is inconsistent. the impact that the divorce rate will be increased substantially.
solution is to let each other decide to enhance understanding marriage, marriage is not suitable for fast-food culture and must understand the truth 80. < br> Second, the 80-phobia after the marriage, and lack of trust with. This is the outside of the propaganda imposed on them, but said it three times will become the truth lies. they face the test of spiritual and ethical, with no break in the break between the two. This is the result after 80 important source of pain.
Finally, after 80 parents facing the challenges of marriage. After all, in the 670 and 890 there is a cultural difference between. Parents can not accept the views of children and the children and their parents can not understand the point of view. which will inevitably result in parents and external conflicts between family members. One of the most obvious of course, be regarded as  competition.  happy life, so if you love strong, and parents do not blindly oppose it. the views of parents will love a challenge. cross the border, you may be able to always be happy, do not pass, as evidenced by your love is not sincere .
80 after the pressure slowly revealed itself, and be able to extract them the way, is more understanding and awareness. However, on their own hard work out of the room, only more real. to work with children.